I was talking to my brother about women’s attitudes towards their bodies, especially regarding weight/fat, and when he said “most guys don’t notice/care about that kind of thing,” I tried to explain why it was a lot more complicated than that. I ended up telling this story.
Body image is something that’s so hard to talk about, and it’s hard to express body positivity without sounding cheesy, false, or overly simplistic. But I’m gonna try. This is only my own experience, and it didn’t magically cure me of all my body image issues - but it was a major turning point for me nonetheless.
Q:Do you think the following is normal? I can only obtain an orgasm through clitoris stimulation. My gspot and vagina feels good, but never can make me cum. I've had numerous partners and a wide variety of toys, but I still can't cum without clitorial stimulation.
Most vagina-owners cannot climax without clitoral stimulation. I’ve read statistics as high as 80% for this.
The cure to this is investing in a clitoral wand, in my opinion. It can be used for masturbation or during intercourse, with or without penetration, and feels amazing.
The female vaginal orgasm is useless. When you are fucking, you have to concentrate on the pleasure of the male.
The right moment for the orgasm, for a female, is masturbation, when you’re alone.
This is one of the most idiotic things I’ve read.
Using a clitoral wand while your man is fucking you. This is idiotic.
I know you might think that, considering your experience only consists of your hand on lonely nights, but maybe you should consider that normal people enjoy mutual happiness during sex.
"The right moment for the orgasm, for a female, is masturbation, when you’re alone."
So, basically, “If you want to cum during sex, don’t expect me to be involved. But you sure as hell better be involved in getting me off.” I’m sure that attitude is a real hit with the ladies.
Shooting “Bad girls” - because we love seeing different body types close together. Diversity <3
As a straight lady please allow me to say GOD DAMN, LADIES. Lookin’ good.
I get really tired of being told I’m “cute”. Just cute. Like, yes - I KNOW I’m cute. I’m super fucking cute. I’m so cute I don’t know how your head doesn’t just fucking explode from cute overload. But you know what? I’m also SEXY and BEAUTIFUL and GORGEOUS and BREATH TAKING.
I get really tired of being told that I can’t be sexy because fat. That’s fucking bullshit. Don’t ever buy into it. Look at these ladies. SEXY FUCKS. We all have it. Every size. Every shape. Every woman. <3
BDB says: Hot dayummmmm….
Pairing: Clint Barton/Natasha Romanoff
Summary: Clint has an unexpectedly strong reaction to his partner playing the traditionally perfect wife. Natasha knows exactly how to handle this situation.
Disclaimer/Notes: Written for Kink Bingo 2013 Round 6 [gender play].
Thanks to the Hive for the beta work.
Q:If Babygirl lately prefers using a vibe while I play & suck her tits rather than fucking is that bad? I'm for vibes if the partner is gone & I know clit orgasms can be stronger but it seems someone's getting replaced.
I think it’s a good thing. Sex should be a lot more than just penetration, honestly. Not all women orgasm that way, for one thing.
A lot of sex is about finding what works for you and your partner. If it gets her off, that’s a good first step. Now the important part is making sure you’re feeling involved and happy with what’s happening.
Q:top 5 desired but as of yet unfulfilled kinks.
Candle wax, blood play, body writing, multiple subs, and certain aspects of age play (though that one comes with a host of qualifications).
That’s not necessarily a top five, just the five that came to mind.