Q:Crush due to being both feminist and also a somewhat sadistic dom, which hits ALL THE BUTTONS. The good buttons. Also, btw, have been waiting all day for you to get to the "Always so rude." bit because I was so excited for you getting to see that!
That was the best moment. I mean, I love the fact that Morello just gave Rosa the van to escape, and I love both of them, and everything about the nuns at the gate, it was such a funny scene. And satisfying.
And thank you! It’s a fun combination to be.
Q:My crush on you is layered. Your wit always gets me and makes me smile. You are gorgeous, I know you don't see it but you are. Your smile is just plain enticing. You are intelligent but not pompous. You seem to love with your heart open. You don't take shit from anybody and you know the importance of found family.
Aww, geez, okay, I didn’t think anyone would be all sincere about it. Thank you, anon.
Q:No. NO! I CAN'T LOVE YOU. I JUST CAN'T NOOOOOOOOoooooo.... ...or can I? DO I?!?! NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
*cuts off anon’s hand, lets anon fall into the depths of Cloud City*
Q:I have an anti-crush on you. I am envious of you, you are what I aspire to be. I must either accept that I am not worthy, or destroy you and assume your identity. MUAHAHAHAHAHA
I dunno, anon, seems pretty much like you looooooooove me.
Q:Fandoms: Buffy the vampire Slayer(Just Buffy characters, no one on angel).
- Push off a cliff - Angel. I’m not a huge fan.
- Frick frack - Drusilla. (I’ll probably die, I’m okay with that.)
- Marry - Jenny Calender. *sobs*
- Set on fire - Warren. Fucker.
- Wrap a blanket around - Tara, because I adore her.
- Be roommates with - Giles. Or Oz. Hell, or both, that would be a pretty chill apartment with a great library.
Q:The Avengers - Movies
- Push off a cliff - Loki
- Frick frack - Natasha
- Marry - Darcy Lewis
- Set on fire - Grant Ward.
- Wrap a blanket around - Cap
- Be roommates with - Falcon
Q:FSOG Anon here: It seems so obvious and now I feel like an idiot.
Oh, don’t worry about it. When I got the original ask, I couldn’t remember what it stood for. I ran to Google, and had a “Ohhh, fuck no,” moment.
Q:What does FSOG stand for? I'm not familiar with that acronym for any book.
Fifty Shades of Grey.
- Set on fire - The book
Q:How do you go about trimming your beard and general beard maintenance? No one in my family has ever grown one and obviously I tried googling it but I end up noping out of articles after lines like 'beards are a friendly dig at feminism' and hyper-masculine language which is creepy as fuck. I can't get to a barber regularly (distance + lack of money) but I'm sick of looking like a fresh faced 15 year old when I shave. Help?
Aw, crap, anon, I meant to get around to answering this earlier. I completely get what you mean about the whole tone of some of the sites. I mean, come on, guys. We get it. You can grow a beard. It means pretty much exactly that. It’s not like you’ve slain a shadow beast to prove you’re a trained warrior or something.
Okay, here’s the first thing you need to go and get:
A beard trimmer. Prices and options range on it, I want to say I got mine from Kohl’s for somewhere around $25 a few years ago. There are fancier models around that can run you more, but an inexpensive one works fine for me. Find one that’s rechargeable, and it’ll help.
And basic grooming stuff, I probably could ramble on at you, but I’ll be honest, I think this site does a better job of putting out the basics. Their tips on the neck line and cheek line are pretty handy, too. I don’t really keep my neck and cheek line too razor-sharp- every week or so, I’ll take a regular razor and trim them up- but it really does help it look better.
Q:I have a sneaking suspicion that the majority of people who say "Larry isn't that bad" *are* Larry.
Q:Larry isn't even that bad, I don't know what everyone's bitching about, Chapman is worse than larry ffs
Are you kidding me? Larry, Mr. “You’ve been in jail for two weeks, but god, it’s so hard on me, baby, because I have to masturbate!”, the guy who ignores his fiancee’s calls for a week because he’s going to lash out at her on a fucking NPR interview instead of talking to her like an adult, you’re going to say he isn’t that bad? Dude sucks hardcore.
Q:On a scale of 1 to Conrad Verner how excited are you about the announcement of Bioware's new IP and the ARG surrounding it? :D
Oh so fucking excited. I only have two reservations:
- I watched the trailer in the middle of the night after reading a bunch of NoSleep stuff, so I was a touch spooked.
- "What happens when we dream"? I swear to god, Bioware, if this is another excuse to make me play through the Fade, I’m going to… *sighs* I’m going to be really excited about the new stuff anyway, you bastards.
I may not have a healthy relationship with Bioware.
Q:Do you have any recommendations on gender-neutral terms for a dom in a d/s relationship? I've only just realized my identity and I'm trying to find dom terms that will match that in order to help my sub not contribute to my on-going dysphoria. If you don't, hopefully one or more of your followers would have an answer. You rock.
The only thing that immediately comes to mind is “dominant,” which is a little… Clinical? Or you could go with a title- I don’t know what kind of dynamic you have in your relationship, but a title indicating some sort of authority should work- Professor, Captain, Boss. I don’t know if any of those feel right to you.
Any followers with other suggestions?
Q:I'd put you firmly into a ranger type class. Maybe gnomish.
Ranger would be good. Don’t know about a gnome, though- maybe more halfling…